Didja ever notice – “marriages with delayed consummation” in film?

Here are nine films which feature "marriages with delayed consummation":

  • Smilin’ Through (1932) – my first two examples are not comedies, but dramas, and this one was nominated for a Best Picture Oscar. Leslie Howard’s character has wed Moonyeen (Norma Shearer), but she is shot dead at the altar right after they’ve exchanged vows by the third wheel of a love triangle (Fredric March). Unfulfilled, Howard carries a bitter grudge for a generation that extends to his niece (also played by Shearer) and March, now playing his own look-alike son.
  • The Wedding Night (1935) – playing a blocked writer, Gary Cooper loses his love Manya (Anna Sten) to Ralph Bellamy’s immigrant farmer character, which under normal movie circumstances would be impossible since Bellamy would make a career of losing the girl to the more attractive leading man. To right this wrong, Manya is killed in a stairway scuffle between Cooper and Bellamy shortly after the party on the titled evening.
  • Vivacious Lady (1938) – James Stewart plays the milquetoast botany professor son of a stern small town college president (Charles Coburn) and a weak-hearted mother (Beulah Bondi). Since he is unable to bring himself to confess that he’s just married a New York nightclub singer (Ginger Rogers in the title role) he’d just met, especially since he was engaged to a pre-approved local girl, he pretends that she is his friend’s girl, a new student. The newlyweds spend the rest of the film trying to "get together"; of course, every attempt is frustrated.
  • Kisses for Breakfast (1941) – a bump on the head causes a just married groom (Dennis Morgan) amnesia which not only prevents he and his bride from consummating their marriage, but leads to his falling in love and wanting to marry his wife’s cousin (Jane Wyatt).
  • Hi Diddle Diddle (1943) – Dennis O’Keefe and Martha Scott play newlyweds that are endlessly interrupted by his con man father’s (Adolph Menjou) schemes or her socialite mother’s (Billie Burke) dizziness until the last scene, when the family maid intervenes to allow them some time alone before the sailor (O’Keefe) has to return from his shore leave.
  • Baby Doll (1956) – Carroll Baker earned her only Academy Award nomination as Best Actress playing the title role in this Elia Kazan-directed, Tennessee Williams-written drama. Married too young to Karl Malden’s character by her father, the child bride teases and controls her husband for years insisting she isn’t old enough for sex, until a powerful Italian businessman (Eli Wallach in his film debut) comes to town.
  • Don’t Give Up the Ship (1959) – this comedy features a Navy Lieutenant (played by Jerry Lewis) that is "shanghaied" on his wedding day, right after the ceremony, and ordered to find the support ship that he’d lost at the end of the war some years earlier.
  • The Young Philadelphians (1959) – actress Diane Brewster’s newlywed movie husband Adam West abandons her on their wedding night after admitting that he’s been living a lie, in this drama directed by Vincent Sherman that features Robert Vaughn’s only Oscar nominated performance; the cast includes Paul Newman, Barbara Rush, Alexis Smith, and Brian Keith (among others).
  • Period of Adjustment (1962) – speaking with a Southern accent in only her fifth film, Jane Fonda is perplexed when her newlywed husband (Jim Hutton) seems more interested in conversing and drinking with some truck drivers at a roadside diner than in consummating their marriage the night they were married, in this lighter than normal Tennessee Williams drama.

Of course, there are films when consummation should be avoided at all costs, Cat People (1942)!

What other classic movies can YOU think of which feature "marriages with delayed consummation"?

15 Responses Didja ever notice – “marriages with delayed consummation” in film?
Posted By T.W. : March 18, 2007 10:59 am

I'd like to add another title to the list – an Italian film which is rarely shown anymore, Bell ' Antonio (1960). Marcello Mastroianni plays a newlywed who is unable to consummate his marriage to Claudia Cardinale and is bringing shame to his family and the bride's. Although he never articulates the exact reason why he can't perform, it appears to be more a case of "stage fright" than a physical problem. Despite the description, the film is not a comedy but a sensitive character study. And unlike the other titles above, the marriage remains unconsummated at the fadeout.

Posted By Mrs. Rutledge : March 18, 2007 3:28 pm

You get the distinct feeling of “delayed consummation” in the comedy “Arsenic and Old Lace.” Cary Grant and Priscilla Lane are more than ready to start their honeymoon when Grant stumbles onto the truth about his elderly aunts…they are, in fact, insane murderers. Lane keeps trying to get him in a cab on their way to married bliss. But for the rest of the movie, Grant has other things on his mind.

Posted By Andy : March 19, 2007 3:47 am

How about The Quiet Man? Also The Family Way? Haven't seen it in a while, but I think that was the premise.

Posted By Jessica : March 19, 2007 11:12 am

That Touch of Mink:  First it's out-of-wedlock "delayed consummation", then once they are married it's Cary Grant's character that suddenly has the hives on their wedding night!

Posted By Medusa : March 22, 2007 4:41 pm

Delayed consummation, indeed!  I almost forgot about one of my favorite Charlton Heston/marauding ant movies — The Naked Jungle!  Charlton, as Mr. Leningen, marries Eleanor Parker, as Joanna, via proxy, but then freaks out when he discovers she's a widow — been married before.  Ick!  He's intimidated and won't bed her.  Oh, he of little experience!  They don't get it on until the marabunta are at their door and he finally realizes she's got the right stuff.  And then she gets right stuffed, all right!Great sexual tension, and none-too-subtle talk of pianos being better when they're played (ahem!).  What a movie!  And good use of a shrunken head to intimidate his new bride…hmmm…that doesn't sound right, does it? I meant a REAL shrunken head, folks. 

Posted By pat : March 23, 2007 9:57 pm

You forgot "the Glenn Miller Story".  They end up in their bridal suite and suddenly the band friends pop up in the room.  They end up in Harlem listening to Louie Armstrong to the "wee" hours of the morning.

Posted By jerry : April 7, 2007 9:37 am

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Posted By Vince M : April 7, 2007 3:10 pm

I promptly thought of 'Lord Love a Duck' where Roddy McDowall's character instructs Barbara Ann (Tuesday Weld) how to get what she wants – when she wants, and marries, the wooden youth minister, McDowall keeps their relation celibate, mostly by inflicting physical harm on the poor sap.

Posted By Athena729 : November 27, 2007 1:22 pm

Excellent list! Don't forget:The Trap (1966)–Oliver Reed plays a crude French-Canadian trapper who takes a young mute girl (Rita Tushingham) as his wife. It's been a long time since I've seen this but I think there's a drunk scene where Reed tries to assert himself and Rita flees into the snow. He follows and guess what (see movie title) is waiting in the woods for him!The Barefoot Contessa (1954)–Ava Gardner is a simple Spanish girl who becomes an actress and the darling of jetset society. She marries Rossano Brazzi, a gorgeous Italian count who can't fulfill the wedding night owing to a war injury. She continues to follow her free spirit lifestyle including indulging with a former lover and the count kills her. The movie takes place during her funeral with a series of flashbacks narrated by Humphrey Bogart, Edmond O'Brien and Warren Stevens.   

Posted By cso : November 27, 2007 8:31 pm

Medusa,Did I get the wrong take on "The Naked Jungle!"  I got the vibe that Eleanor Parker was not a widow but a discarded mistress and that was Heston's hangup.  (That was just a little sin of ommision on her part, do you think a class act like Ms. Parker would have left the states if she was a respectable widow-woman.) He wanted a virginal hothouse flower to initiate and what he really got was a vixen who was oh say, just a little shopworn for his taste (although she hid it under a nice veneer.) Chuck, get over yourself, who cares that the tamper evident seal got broken.  You need a strong woman to deal with the frontier and your macho manliness – Eleanor is just the ticket . . hot, hot, hot . . it's steamy watching his libido fence with his pride! The ant menance forces him to blank or get off the pot, so to speak.

Posted By MDR : November 28, 2007 4:54 pm

Thanks for the additions Athena729.  I've yet to see The Trap (1966), and I shouldn't have forgotten to include The Barefoot Contessa (1954) on my original list.

Posted By Betsy Brett : December 3, 2007 12:15 pm

How about My Favorite Wife? Cary Grant's character re-marries after having his first wife declared dead, after years of being missing. Then, as they arrive at their honeymoon location, Cary sees first wife, Irene Dunne, in the lobby. Decidedly stalls the honeymoon!

Posted By Medusa : December 3, 2007 9:41 pm

Hi Cso!Well, the effect is the same, but I do believe that Parker is definitely supposed to be a widow.  Check out the synopsis here– http://www.tcm.com/tcmdb/title/title.jsp?stid=84539–and there's the angle that she had a connection with Leningen through his brother and that's why she specifically went all that way to be with him.  Whatever got her there, it's almost funny watching him fume and get all aroused, such as when he has to put the insect potion on her nekkid shoulder.  What a movie!  I think it's one of Heston's most entertaining!  The only thing I don't like is that they never really show the last clinch — the shot is a far, far longshot of the devastated landscape and even the "The End" comes up over Leningen and his madame embracing in the now-antless ruins of the plantation!  I think we got cheated!  :-)

Posted By addie : December 10, 2007 1:55 am

This is a late entry, but I am completely lost on  the current  "picnic basket social" "didja eve notice"."Fallen" Angel" 

Posted By MDR : February 10, 2010 11:40 am

Certainly The Doughgirls (1944) qualifies and should be on this list.

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